At initial she was prohibited as well as her celebrity shines with soundness though right away she has gained as well most weight as well as looks similar to the diabetic walrus which got kicked in the face by the inebriated small person wearing paltform shoes.
Should we leave her?
"a diabetic walrus" "a drunken midget wearing platform shoes…"
HOw can any comedian compete with that!
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lmao no just get her a membership somewhere….i bet your not as hot as what she thought you looked….sorry bud but after being with someone female seem to lose themselve after marriage why i’m scared of getting married..lol
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No stay with her and live the miserable life that she lives having you around.
you’re not being serious, are you? if you love her stay, if not then leave.. as simple as that
if you think her weight is a problem, you dont love her.
ROFLMAO… you are one funny man cheese.
caring her and help for losting fat
If anyone seriously responds to this, it will be hilarious.
tell her you want to get fit an you want her to join you. make it sound like a fun couples thing an she may go . but whatever you do dont tell her the reason or even hit at it .
She should leave you. No wonder she has gained
weight. She wants to have a barrier between her
beautiful soul and your insensitivity.
You sound too young to be married. I feel bad
for her.
Of course you should leave her since your criteria for marriage is shallow. You might as well give her the chance to find someone who will really love her. Meanwhile you can move on to the next hot chick who will lose her appeal eventually.
I think you should pack your bags and leave right now.. do her a favor!~ She deserves so much more then you could ever give her!`
damn that’s cold……if her personality has not changed give her a break she can always lose the weight, if she’s become a total jerk, then it could be because she’s not happy with the way she looks, get two memberships to the local gym, and try to work it out…just think if you dump her now and she becomes Hot again you’re going to regret it
i hope your kidding…
if your not…yes leave her…i would not want anyone to be with me if they think i look that disgusting…i mean kicked in the face by a drunken midget?! woahhh
but check out my question and gimme an answer please…
Are you silly? No, you shouldn’t leave her and if your thinking of it, you better hope that one day someone who loved you doesn’t leave YOU when YOU start to change. Did you marry her for her looks? Or for her heart?….You need to support her. Might kindly mention Weight Watchers. It’s a great program. Very satisfying and the meetings are so encouraging. I’ve lost 30 lbs in the past 4 months. Please don’t let her know how you feel. Sometimes people eat even more when they are emmotional upset, sad, mad, etc. Hang in there.
Not to be rude, but if you are calling your wonderful girl "a diabetic walrus that got kicked in the face by a drunken midget wearing platform shoes" ….then I think you have some problems. And by the way, you should apollogize to her for saying that. Even if she doesn’t know why.
What a horrible way to describe a woman that you supposedly love?????? You need to have a serious talk with a marriage counselor or you WILL end up in divorce court. So she’s changed, how much have you changed since the wedding?????
wt* are u even a man? u marry her just cause she is beautiful? u are really not a man. if u are, nvr leave her and learn to love her for who she is and not for how she looks like!
why? just because she became fat and ugly? what did you love? the girl who is sexy or the person?think about it.
i think you should leave, you obviously dont love her or respect her, you dont come on and say, my wife has gained a little weight, how can i tactfully help her without hurting her feelings, no you come here calling her a walrus and sayin should i leave, Hell yes you should, she deserves better than a gutter licker like you
She sounds pretty compared to the way you look on the inside your a jerk you should have married your hand , that way you could keep a picture of some model above your bed and let your wife Mrs hand take care of you and she will never get fat maybe faded not fat.
WOW. thats saddned me because you care what she looks like. looks are not imporant. Personality is imporant… If you dont love her then leave her just because shes not that hot anymore and she doesnt deserve this from you… Maybe leave her cause it will cause the more pains in the future…
She is your wife.You should be honest with her. So talk with her and try to help her to control her weight and stay with her through the bad and good times.
if your going to be that shallow then leave her and one day youll regret it. She will be better off for it. Cause if you really loved her then you could never ask that question. Shame on you you obviously took no stock into till death do us part or for better or worse. Were to obsessed with looks nowdays. Besides maybe theres something wrong, maybe she is depressed and thats why that happens alot, try to motivate her but accept her for who she is.
Leave her! I feel bad for her and all but if you don’t find her sexy then its best to leave now, soon your just going to be looking around cause your not attracted to your girl any more. No amount of love is going to chance that!
It really don’t matter what WE say YOUR the one who has to look at her every day!
No, you married her because you loved all of her, not just her looks I hope. Encourage her to go on a diet or workout with her. Weight can be lost, she is still the same person you married. You don’t leave someone just because they change a little, you figure out ways to solve it! What are you going to do when you guys get old and gray?? Marriage is forever, you know.
By the way you described her now it sounds to wacky like you are being funny. But it all depends how you really feel if you love her then help her loose weight if you dont love her anymore then do her the favor and leave her alone.
The question you need to answer is:- "Why has she lost respect in herself?"
obviously, after marriage, we all guys realized not only our partner gained weight, but also less active, sex life gone stale……
I am still keeping my wife closely becoz, i married her coz love. Simply that. She accepted my faults and i accept hers. We have fun together and do a lot of other things. So it kept away the attention of physical looks etc. and lead a happier marriage life.
Depends on what you are looking for and also why you married her in the 1st place.
FYI, i actually dump a hot sexy babe and chose my current wife to marry. Becoz honestly, i dun see how i can live with a person juz for sex only.
No.. unless you just married her for her looks… but even then, you’ve already taken vows to be with her for better or for worse, etc. You will just have to live with her.. Be her inspiration!!
Some women lose interest in maintaining their good looks because of depression. Could it be that you have settled her into a lifestyle that has brought about all this?
why would you leave her because of that? u said that shes wonderful….please look past her looks…what goes around comes around, so be careful, cuz it will happen to you….im sure that you have many flaws of your own
well actually i kinda have the same problem,and the worst part is she wants to have more kids and her doctor told her bad idea until you lose about a hundred pounds no joke but that just made her depressed and she is gaining more wieght but i love her to death so i think i’ll try to get her to a doctor that can give her some meds that will keep her happy for no reason so maybe that’ll help and i realy hope it does because and i know it sounds bad but i am not attracted to her anymore and the thought of sex with her kinda makes me
sick but i do it anyway im not sure if im answer your question or venting but atleast i feel better either way i will always love her and in the end thats important i hope
It’s time to give an ultimatum. Lose the weight or she will lose you. Don’t listen to all that crap that people are going to bark at you like ‘unconditional love’ sh*t. There’s no such a thing as unconditional love. I’m so sick and tired of people repeating this sh*t like parrots. What if I’m married to a woman who starts doing drugs and she won’t stop, should I just put up with it and love her anyway because of this unconditional love crap ?? What if she screws around ?? What if she wants to shave half of her head and leave the other half ? What if……??? You see, when I marry someone because of who they are, I expect them to stay that way. It’s one of the reasons why I chose them, regardless if it’s physical or otherwise. If I marry a girl with a certain body type, and I don’t say anything about it, that means I accept her body the way it is. She should also know that I expect her to keep her looks. Of course the same thing goes for men too. Besides, being overweight IS NOT attractive. And to some people it’s just a big turn off. So, I say to those overweight people, don’t expect your spouses to be happy with you the way you are, unless they really don’t mind the weight issue, which I think is rare.
** Yup, just like I thought, a bunch of idiots are barking the crap I was telling you. I was just going thru their answers, and again, people are sooooooo f**ing dumb. Looks like they’ve forgotten that physical attraction is the first thing in just about any relationship. Ask the average person what they look for in a mate, and the first thing the’d tell you is there has to be attraction, ATTRACTION. Hello…!! You idiots.
So, I’d say give her an ultimatum, give her a deadline by which she should be like 20 or 30 pounds less. If she isn’t just find someone else. There’s no point of staying with someone you’re not attracted to.
For starters, if u REALLY like cheese as much as your username suggests I reckon u r gonna experience some pretty heft weight gain yourself…would she leave you???
Do u love your wife? If u do then its worth finding out WHY she’s put on so much weight…maybe she is so miserable she is comfort eating? People dont suddenly pile on wieght cos they ‘are married and they can’ – there’s always a reason. Are u man enough to face up to the fact that you could be part of that reason?
Its not all about the looks you know!
If you really love her then why should it matter?
I wish ur wife would just up n leave your butt for sum1 who appreciates her!
u dont sound worth her time anywayz
Leave her??
What just like that?
Don’t you love her enougth to help her lose the excess of pounds
What happened to her?
Why did she suddenly started putting on weight? Did you guys go to see the doctor? Could it be genetic problem or some disease she developped?
Well, obviously, if she does manage to lose some weight, it will do wonders for her health and for her self esteem obviously.
Do you think that she let herself go after the marriage?
Do you have children?
The truth is, after your first pregnancy, if you don’t get rid of the fat straight away, it’s going to be more difficult to later.
To be able to do that, you need moral support and possibly for your partner or a friend to help you. Do some exercise with you or encourage you by sharing your diet.
Do you think that you are helping enougth at home? Sharing the housework?
Is she depressed?
The thing is when you are depressed, you get disgusted with yourself and you want to punish yourself, and when you look at yourself you think that you already look so ugly that you might as well just carry on eating!
So, unless you are 100% sure that your wife is just being a lazy bone, you should try and understand what’s happening instead of giving up on her, just because her looks are not so great any more!
I don’t say that no matter what you have to stay, but if you haven’t tried to help….
And although her looks were part of the reason you chose her, surely there was more to your relationship than that?!!!
Then you go for another slim beauty. You enjoy her and after some time she became fatty and ugly like a drunken mudget wearing platform shoes. Yeah.
As you said at first she was hot and her personally shines with perfection – you enjoyed that only. When she became fatty you noticed only all of a sudden in one day or the gradual transformation.
You sent her to a fitness centre and tell her to adhere strictly their rules on dieting too. She will become alright and you will find her again hot and shining. Ok. Don’t change partners like changing shirts.
i personally know a man who treated his wife like that,one month after his marriage he started telling her and everyone in family and all the friends that he thought that she looked ugly. this behaviour actually depressed her and had profound effect on her health, skin hair,she stopped to take care of herself. after 4 yrs of marriage both finally decided to divorce.a week after divorce, that man was almost mad bcz then he realized how much he loved her and how nice the woman was to put up with him for such a long time. everyone around him started to hate him for being so cruel. he wanted reconciliation but her family didnt allow her and found another man for her.she also missed her first husband, and was very upset at first but the other man winned her love by his love and affection. this jerk married anothr girl but soon she was also depressed bcz he could never forget his first wife, and soon the second wife was also changed into an ugly woman, due to lack of tender loving care. while the first one was now a beautiful woman again bcz she was being loved and appreciated now. in depression he divorced his second wife.to prove his love for the first girl.but she wouldnt leave the nice man she is with now.this man is living a lonely life full of regrets.
point is that it doesnt matter whats the complexion or weight of ur woman, if you love her and care for her she’ll turn into a beautiful confidant woman radiating glamour and beauty.try to appreciate her and tell her much you love her and that you are proud of her.she will definitely try to change herself.
jerks like you can turn brittany spears into diabetic walrus.
clearly you dont deserve her . but try to change your way of thinking,otherwise u’ll end up like this man.good luck to ur wife
you’re in alot of trouble if you’d married her for looks in the first place. well, sometimes, things happen the way you dread it to happen. you have not much to do but to love her in another way, perhaps her character or something. come on, she’ll definitely look better after you talk to her right? add a lil sugar to all the truths you might want to tell her. that might just work out. all the best!
ok I take it you married her as a complete package and you said when you did this for better or worse
I am sure you are getting a beating here with all the answers
but come on you cant be serious
you already said her personality shines
doesnt it still shine
isnt the love you felt when you married enough cant you see past the outward and see the secret person of the heart
50 years down the track looks will fade gravity will set in
marridge is not like a car you trade in for a better model it is for life
I really feel sorry for you as you will be the one old and lonely if you keep this mind set
take a look in the mirror
That is the funniest thing i’ve ever read, lmao