I’m asking this in M&D since obviously..marriage (duh) though additionally since we wish to know what alternative tied together couples think…But I’m twenty-one my husbands 23..he’s additionally in a troops as well as we have been removing eliminated someday in a subsequent integrate years..also we have Type 1 (juvenile) diabetes (insulin dependent) as well as prior to we even begin to try to have a baby we have to have it COMPLETELY underneath control..so we proposed meditative which carrying a baby in a subsequent integrate years (when i’m hitch twenty-two or 23) would be ok though a little ppl contend that’s as well young. we wish to do it prior to we get eliminated so we can have my family around me during a conceiving physically additionally since it’s gunna take about a year or so to get all underneath control. Also we will be financially fast by then. Does this appear as well immature to we or only about right?? We will be tied together for 2-3 years by then..Also what age did we as well as your father begin carrying children? we wish a little recommendation from tied together ppl (mainly) though all answers have been welcome..thank we in advance!
I was additionally meditative prior to a total send incident which I’d wait for compartment we was twenty-four or 25..but right divided I’m shaken about being divided from family during conceiving physically so that’s because we was meditative twenty-two or 23
There’s pros and cons to having children young and waiting. It just depends on your situation & your feelings as a married couple. Our first child will be born when I’m 22, and we’d like to have our second when I’m 24 (this is tentative of course – we’ll see after the first haha). My husband & I don’t go out, we’ve accomplished the goals we wanted to accomplish before a family, & we would like to enjoy our children as adults while we’re still young. We’ll also be able to save & travel freely when we’re in our 40s rather than in our 50s or 60s. We had been together for 4 years before marriage, have been ready for family life for about a year now, and we have our house & finances sorted. On the other hand, I didn’t get to finish college yet and I have to delay finding a career until after our second child. I would have also liked to stay looking young a little while longer
But those are the things that stood out the most to me. You just have to judge your situation & priorities because what’s right for one person isn’t right for another!
according to medical science its 20 or above
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take care
they say the best age to get married is 30 but thats their opinion not mine.
i will not get married and get rich :p
26 for children?
There is no right age to have kids. Our bodies are able to produce children for a total of about 40 years, so the "best" age is somewhere between menstruation and menopause.
Babies are a lot of work. When you’re young, you have the energy, but not the life experience. When you have your children a little bit older, you’re more relaxed, but it takes more out of you. It’s a personal choice every couple has to make. I had my first at 21 and my second at 26, and I was a much better parent at 26. (Of course, I was much more stable in my life at 26..)
I say, at least 25. I’ve always wanted to be a really young Mom(under 25) but I’m not ready for it. Plus, I want to be married. 23 and engaged.
That is all up to you and your husband. Are you both ready for a child mentally and financially? I had my first child when I was 22 and it was great. I am 36 now and we have 3 kids, my youngest is 9 and I wouldn’t change a thing. No one has experience with a first child. Everything is scary but you learn as you go. Good luck.
It’s best to have them when they are about 9 months old so they are still small enough to birth without hurting yourself.
You need to talk to your doctor (ob/gyn) about this because you have a medical condition which could seriously impact on a pregnancy.
Most of the women I know, my mother included, didn’t even think about starting to have children until they were well into their mid to late 20s, so 25 and up.(Some were even in their 30s and a few were pushing 40! — which is actually a bit late, all things considered.)
Certainly waiting until you’re financially stable is an excellent idea. You don’t want to have money worries when you’re expanding your family.
The rest really depends on the strength of your marriage and when and where you will be assigned. How often will you be expected to move? Will you stay in the United States or go abroad?
Having a baby is a huge step. Some people have handled it well at 21 (one of my sisters), others can’t handle it apparently at any age (see some of the stuff posted in this section!).
We married at 23 (kind of young in my opinion) and started having children when we were 29. I am glad we waited to have our kids as we were more mature and had spent almost 6 years as a couple solidifying our marriage (and growing up some).
We are now 47, married 24 years, and our kids are 18 and 15.
I will be 22 when I have my baby and married to the father when I’m 23.
I would wait until he is done with the military. Not being near family later on is not a good reason to have a baby. I also think you should enjoy your early 20′s and make sure your marriage is solid for a few years before even trying for children. You are only 21 years old! I had my kids at 28 and 33.